An internet romance: it takes two to tango

Sep 28 2006  | Views 1170 |  Comments  (12)
he was besotted: in a few short months, she had turned his world upside down - and to imagine he hadnt even met her yet!... Expand

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  ixedoc posted 2 yrs ago

 

This was a news item on <mangalorean.com>

Rio de Janeiro, Oct 5 (DPA) An international online love affair didn't lead to the altar but instead ended in a brutal murder in Brazil. Police said this week after a six-month investigation that an American man who came to Brazil to visit the fiancee he had romanced on the Internet was killed by the woman over money, according to media reports.

ixedoc



  swarajya posted 2 yrs ago

The internet romance is one of the best stories I have read from Doc.A young man ,Anchor  happens to confront  an aged woman ,Angel only to bluff each other out  to save themselves.In one such internet romance a young man from USA  gets madly in love with a fictitious lady Bharatanatyam dancer staying in Singapore.He rejects all cases proposed by parents  and waits for three years only to be told that someone was befooling him.However, a hard case was salvaged out with great difficulty by parents and friends.

Hat's off for an excellent story.



  appudhar posted 2 yrs ago

Hello Doc!

Interesting story... I liked the twist of events and you have a way to tell a tale.. good read.

Denice.. I can't help but imagine the scenario.. I wonder how that would turn out..:-)

Aparna

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  denice _menace posted 2 yrs ago

Lol..funny...but this net fling had some reality to it...but I can't stop chuckling..imagine if this happens to Sulekhites..all thses handles what we imagine to be, think of and feel that we know..should become real..haw..that will be funny..and to see so many awestruck faces at one time..will be sooo funny

:)



  obseccy posted 2 yrs ago

LRao -

I suppose it's possible to tell if the other person is for you or not under 30 sec. For e.g., if Anchor's requirement is that his woman should look like a catwalk model, and he sees a 40 something woman .. he knows pretty quick.

OTOH, after the superficial requirements are met, I believe love and respect grow over a long association. I guess that's the kind of question Doc's article raises. In this case, Angel and Anchor had a "long association" online and came to love each other .. but in person .. it took a different turn .. they were not who they imagined to be!

OE

 



  L Rao posted 2 yrs ago

Good point Obs.  I just had one question: can you tell if the "spark" is there or not within 30 seconds of meeting someone? Just curious.... He seems to have seen her at a distance and decided "oh no, need to wriggle out of this situation, fast".  So, me thinking: no thought of spark involved. It does take more than 30 seconds I think. What do you say?



  obseccy posted 2 yrs ago

The terse, almost candid-camera-like narration reminded me of this.

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LRao and Priyamvada,

The author can choose to make a villain out of Angel or Anchor - that doesn't matter.

Angel being older than Anchor doesn't matter either.

What matters is - the tension between them in their net personas - and its dissolution in a face-to-face meeting.

Both Angel and Anchor may be in real life all they described in their online profiles - but when they meet in person, if the same spark is not there, it's all off anyway.

ObserverEccentric

 

 



  Sleepless by the bay posted 2 yrs ago

Nice one, Doc! Definitely possible in todays' world on internet dating....Makes one go, Hmmm...Gotta think this thru' in the future! :)

 



  L Rao posted 2 yrs ago

Good points Priyamvada!  I guess younger guy falling for an older woman is still looked upon with suspicion, and not so much when an older guy falls for a young woman!  In this story, supposedly "intimacy" grew between them, they got closer and closer over time and wondered whether it is love. But it all flew out of the window the moment he caught sight of her!  So much for love, huh! ;) Oh well... such is the world. 



  supriyad posted 2 yrs ago

Hiya Doc! A cool story! :)





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